Monday, July 22, 2013

who do you think you are?

Aside from bragging, when someone demonstrates regards to themselves, the only differences we can think of is that they might just be being proud, ambitious and being real or inspirational.

In fact, most people do believe that the only thing worse than bragging, is being falsely modest. But, there were “actions” that separates “building an impression".


THE MANIFESTOS we're mostly aware of:
  • Statement about him/her self that’s obvious, and assuming everyone's aware about it.
  • Someone or everyone included in the situation was affected/offended by his/her actions.
  • The bragging DOESN’T have any purpose, AT ALL.
  • Pushing an idea or opinion to someone that is obviously “rationally unjust” OR not claiming his/her own fault and still being defensive about it.
  • Claiming and accusing people that they are jealous to them.
  • Assertion of something they didn’t truly earn and at the same time “bragging and claiming a part of it” (example: obtaining a house, car, managing a business that is actually provided by the parents)
  • The info that the person is bragging about is false.

IF YOU THINK YOU ARE ONE MENTIONED ABOVE, READ FUTHER...

It’s okay, part of your beliefs, mistakes and individuality, respect from others is your birth right. But then anyone can roll their eyes every time they will encounter you. In most that I have seen, they will handle it in:

  1. Letting it pass (which I always do especially if it’s in work)
  2. Being “subtle” for the avenge comeback. And for some;
  3. Well, bringing back what they’ve felt in a much worse form or double.
For the 3rd statement, why? There were some who just can’t tolerate, even if they know the person who made them feel that way is unaware.

So if you think you're NOT entitled in receiving any backfire by acting superior in an unreasonable way, because you think you're something, then, who the fcuk! you think you are?

Yes, some people MIGHT wouldn't mind. But hey, even the President of the Philippines has his own opposition. Still then, why not you?
You can influence what other people think about you, but not the way how they feel.

NOW, WHO DO I THINK I AM?
Whether I’ll be or not “something” someday, I will always stay the same way.

It doesn’t mean that since you think you’re something for now, it’ll be valid acting superior to others, unless you’re truly the authority then maybe you deserve some. And even if your are! move on man! It’s not actually intimidating, it’s fcuking ANNOYING! Some people just don’t realize, isn’t it?

The way I’ve mentioned superiority and authority here in these situations are different. Every time I'll encounter it, I might just let it pass, because maybe you are just being unaware acting that way; while, I do CAN perceive it positively. But it’s now time for you to understand the difference of the two. And still, if you don’t, ponder this:

Whoever is your parents, friends;

Whatever job position that you have; and,
Whatever it is you think you are, face the consequences of only getting the politeness that you are paying for (don't be deceived - nothing more, nothing less)

OR..

FINE! for what you are claiming for... but not the RESPECT, HONOR or anything else AGAIN you THOUGHT you exclusively deserve. 

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